The funeral of a person is not only difficult, but also a responsible business. It is necessary to order who to invite, assign responsibilities, order and pay for the commemoration. All this requires firmness from the relatives of the deceased. To cope with all tasks, it is worth turning to superstition. The parents of the deceased should not carry the coffin
Folk wisdom will tell you how and when it is necessary to conduct a mourning ceremony. So, for example, referring to the signs, they find out whether it is possible to carry the coffin with the body to the relatives of the deceased. The answer to this question depends on many details.
Who can and who cannot carry the coffin of the deceased
According to signs, some relatives are allowed to carry a coffin with the body of the deceased, others, on the contrary, cannot do this.
- The parents of the deceased should not carry the coffin with the body. Their place is at the beginning of the procession. If they put the deceased on their shoulders, then in the future they will be haunted by failure. A black streak in life will begin, due to which it will not be possible to achieve progress in professional activity.
- The aunt or uncle of the deceased is not advised to carry the coffin. This can lead to long-term grief over the loss of a loved one. This will lead to a deterioration in the standard of living and negative changes in the worldview. A person will start thinking about the negative aspects of life more, after which he will have to convince himself.
- If a distant relative brings the coffin with the deceased, then he will meet with an old friend. They will have a good time together, but at the end of the conversation, you will feel the difference in the position of the interlocutors. This will lead both to thoughts, which then influence their actions.
- Friends who did not communicate closely with the deceased can carry the coffin. They will not be negatively influenced by the funeral rite, so they may not fear for their own lives.
- Friends are also not prohibited from carrying the corpse to the burial site. Such an action is rarely a symbol of fate, but in some cases it indicates positive upcoming events. A person can hope for the appearance of loyal friends in the social circle, thanks to which it will be easier to survive the loss.
- A colleague can participate in the funeral procession by carrying the coffin, but this will negatively affect his environment. Many close people will refuse to communicate with a person. His status in society will decrease significantly.
- According to signs, neither the father nor the mother of the second half can carry the coffin with the deceased. Such an act will lead to a deterioration in family relations. Conflicts based on misunderstandings will constantly break out between relatives. They will not be able to find a compromise for a long time.
- If the coffin is carried by the hands of the wife or husband of the deceased, then during the mourning ceremony, one of the guests is in danger. At the funeral, the health of one of the guests will be damaged. It takes time and additional resources for the body to recover and function normally.
- The brother or sister of the other half will have serious conversations about the future if they agree to move the coffin. Such conversations will not only annoy the person, but also negatively affect their relationship with family members.
- Other relatives on the part of the spouse may carry the body of the deceased during the funeral. This will have a positive effect on their material security. They will find a way to increase their own income.
Why relatives can't carry a coffin
According to the signs explaining why relatives cannot carry the coffin, such an act can affect the future fate of a person. He can expect negative events that will knock him out of the usual rhythm of life or negatively affect relationships with others. You can clarify the omen by relying on who the person was to the deceased.
Church opinion
According to the clergy, all blood relatives cannot carry a coffin. This will strengthen the spiritual connection with the deceased, which makes the person more vulnerable to grief and longing for the past.
The funeral of the deceased is an event that requires attention from relatives, because a wrong act will affect the future life of a person and his family.
Only by checking with the signs, it is possible to properly organize the mourning ceremony and at the same time not bring trouble to anyone.