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First secret: Man and woman seek attention in a relationship to yourself. Any dissatisfaction in the relationship arises from the fact that that one of the parties receives less attention from the partner. Can It seems that the relationship is crashing due to the complex nature, bad habits, indecent acts of one or both partners, but if partners give attention to each other, these reasons cannot lead to a break. But when one partner stops giving attention to another, then the battle begins, in which there is room for everyone negative feelings. Man and woman operate differently attention. Thought taken from Yuri Subordin: In fact, there are two attention. Female form of attention when a person is fully attentive to the interlocutor, i.e. perceives the image transmitted without resistance to him as an interlocutor, and the male form of attention is involvement in some kind of process. In this case, the person is completely involved, and not distracted no matter what else. A man longs for a woman to fully heed to him, opening his mouth and agreeing with all his arguments. Took him information unconditionally. In other words, showed a female to him form of attention. Something like this, a man expects a woman to be always ready for sex with him. And so that a woman hears him, man applies his approach to handling attention. He involves her (or those who are interested) in the process of forming new experiences, so that she (they) open up and begin to listen. Man in relationship always sets the direction, i.e. invites interest in something new, where, in his opinion, new ones may arise impressions and thereby begin to listen to him. Woman not supporting a man for a long time in his engagements, becomes for him a source of discomfort and gradually he stops conquering her attention. A man who has ceased to draw a woman into his sphere interests, not giving her new impressions, evokes in her disappointment. A woman considers weak a man who could not to convince her to listen to him, the man considers the bitch the woman who not involved in his suggestions. However, if attention and involvement existed in the relationship of man and woman even for a while, a connection arises that lives on its own and is the second secret. Second secret: Between a man and a woman has a channel of relationships, a sensual connection. At break relationship, the relationship remains and causes suffering on one side and pumping energy for the second. As long as the relationship exists, partners alternately change the direction of movement of energy along this channel. Therefore, one or the other feels better or worse. partner. Any relationship is a process. energy exchange, and feelings, emotions, behavioral patterns – a consequence his. That relationship can be represented as a pipe between a man and a woman through whom feelings and emotions are pumped from one partner to another, greatly simplifies the explanation of why when breaking up one of the partners is bad, and the other, as It says fortune goes hand in hand. Communication, pipe, binding – call it what you want. She is not visible, but the feeling of discomfort is there is. As you can’t see the waves that come to your mobile phone, but the sound in the receiver is reality. Many of you often felt long, exhausting periods of feeling sick when I would like at least a little support partner in the form of SMS, call or warm words. But there was no sound, no movement. And when rumors are heard that the partner is lucky ?! Inside begin to boil resentment, revenge, desire to tear and throw! What to do? A) To realize that your connection is an independent unit of the universe. Similar, like the pipe of your vacuum cleaner. There is a pipe and it is attached to you. A pipe connection will always look for a moment to let you know About Me. For this, the pipe will cause negative feelings and outflow. energy. B) After you realize it, use the pipe to last appointment. Take through it from your partner everything that belongs to you and give him everything that belongs to him. So thus, the need for a pipe will disappear. It will dissolve. IN) Thank your partner for being in your life. give him place in the heart. C) Do you remember the Secret Zero? In this relationship Have you satisfied the need of your ancestors? If not, then in place of this partner will come the same. So that the relationship does not come to a break and suffering, you need to know about the Third Secret: Third Secret: A man must divorce his mother before deciding to marry to the woman. A man always has his first woman. This is his mother. As a boy, he is attached to her for the first twelve years of his life. Further, the connection weakens, but does it always break? If mom self-sufficient, mature personality, she will easily let her son go into the world. The mother passes the son into the hands of the father. Now the man is responsible for a man. So masculinity passes from father to son. But these days not always so smooth. Often the mother herself remains small An inner girl full of fear and distrust. And then she doesn’t can entrust his son to anyone else. Not the father of the child which perhaps has not been around for a long time, much less the girl who laid eye on the most precious thing in her life. Mother does not give freedom to her son, decides all for him. If she knew that she was turning him in Loser! But she does not want to know this – she is Mother and most of all loves her blood! Subconsciously, she wants to be needed and demanded even by him, because he feels full Nothing. And he grows himself like that. So what! She will say. – While I am alive, he will be under my protection and fully provided. And so I want to ask: And when you are gone, he will also follow you in another world? Moms, please, the country needs men! Release them – let them become Men! Love them truly, not out of fear for his tearful Inner child. Moms to man remained in adulthood in the state of your ward, or else worse “psychological husband”, he will have to drink. Only there, in binge, he will be able to fulfill your parental message: “Do not grow!” Men, do not marry until you divorce your mom. Anyway mom how “first and lawful” will beat you away from your wife. After a man divorces his mother and, according to the Bible, cleaves to him wife, that which is hidden in the Fourth secret will arise: The Fourth secret: A woman will always want to deprive a man masculinity, so that he does not get another. Masculinity is the ability to penetrate the unknown, into a world where nothing else it is known and where it is necessary to create order. The universe laid this responsibility for men, forcing them to expand their masculinity, overcoming obstacles and solving puzzles nature. A man must be involved in the new, master this new and bring booty, knowledge to the feet of his woman. Wife, or mom. (Let’s assume that our man has already divorced and brings trophies wife). So his masculinity grows. What about his woman? She is that Universe that wants to be studied by her man. She then revealed to him, it hides some of its secrets in order to cause his interest in his new knowledge of himself. And when he wants begin to study another universe, then in it arises first perplexity, and then resentment: “How? You have not yet known me! How are you can you learn something else? I can’t forgive you like that! ” Seeing his mission is to learn new things, she offers him her “perfect solution”: SIT HOUSES AND HUNTING, KNOW FROM HERE! So she robs him of masculinity because now he cannot her refuse – there will be a scandal: “How? Do you want to change me? Then get out! ” He agrees to stay close and quiet becomes her son, and she is his mother. Their sexual relationship come to naught, but for her the main thing has been achieved – there is someone nearby will always study and serve its universe. What is the way out this stalemate? He is in the Fifth secret: Fifth secret: A man grows in status only on the love of his woman. Of these he has two women: mother and wife. If a man does not grow in status, then there is no love for him. What do all people want? That’s right, development, growth! Growth in human everyday life looks like a transition from one status to another. To grow in status, you need resources, need support. Who gives this support? One who believes, one who loves! When a couple cannot go from their status to a higher rank, for example, for a long time it is impossible to accumulate on expansion of living space, which means that men, as a getter and to the hunter, not enough strength. He needs support. Support he can take only from a woman who, by the power of her faith, will show him that he is strong and cool. A man is no stronger than a woman. The man gets stronger when he lets him feel strong female. A woman is no weaker than a man. She just understands that her a man needs to feel like a hero when he travels over the expanses of her as yet unexplored universe. Woman ready give a man energy so that he gets his attention to her person, to her interests. A woman gives energy, recall through their attention and a feeling of love for a man. On her love he feels stronger and has the ability to grow in status to convey this status to your woman (or mother). As soon as a woman stops give attention and love to a man, his growth in status stops. You can blame a man a lot for his lack of growth and money, but the reason is a woman who does not give him love. What learn this love from the Sixth Mystery: The Sixth Mystery: Love – this is the desire to develop your partner. If the partner does not wish your development, he does not love you. Very often heard sayings: “Why do you need these books, trainings, seminars? Sit at home, take care of the children! ” What does this person want to say pronouncing this? He asks for attention. If attention he gets a lot, but still continues to keep the partner in “golden cage”, then he does not want growth and development to his loved one. Why then are these people nearby? Because both of them benefit from staying injured children and play the role of their unsatisfied ancestors: One is a victim, the other is an executioner. One is insignificance, the other is superiority. One of the two who is in the top position, in the position superiority, he is more wounded, but hides this truth from himself. His strategy: to not feel your pain, you need to be cooler others. Rising above the victims, I will not notice that I myself am the same wretched like them. This strategy leads him to the decision not to give the partner’s opportunity to develop, otherwise the partner will run away from him slavery. He wakes up, sees that the path to freedom is open and will run away! But growth cannot be stopped, and then slowly, slowly, through its role executioner, tyrant, partner begins independently, within the created “golden cage” to pull out of her victim her wounded Inner children. The process is painful and it is concluded in the Seventh Mystery: Seventh Mystery: A man serves a woman with his every action, even negative: drunkenness, idleness, beatings. The man – a woman’s mirror, which reflects all that she’s not about herself wants to know. Even in the most difficult relationships, in the so-called dysfunctional families, a man and a woman serve each other. They are – a mirror of what they themselves do not want to recognize. Two always together, while they have something to give each other. And maybe they give each other pain, humiliation, suffering. But they do not diverge. AND there is only one reason: the history of the ancestors. Two repeat the story their ancestors, showing their love not for a partner, but for an ancestor: grandmother, great-grandfather, or to an aborted mother mom. I’m a lot I wrote about it on the pages of my Blog, but now I just want repeat the old thought with new words: If you do not disagree with to those who do not develop you and make you suffer, you, thanks to your tyrant, little by little you are aware of and take from yourself those wounded Inner children that were created during your lifetime ancestors. It’s a pity, but it’s so … Thank the tyrant, because in his family the same stories as in yours. Because you and the couple. Two fight for love, but you can win only by knowing the Eighth Secret: Eighth mystery: In order for a man to defeat a woman, he needs to win the battle in her eyes, in order for a woman to defeat a man, she needs to lose his. The Taoists said: “A woman is wide and a man is deep.” This means that a woman feels good when she can swing open her soul broadly, and for this she needs to allow herself trust the world, accept it, not wanting change. Such a condition happens in the field when you lie on the grass and let the sky into you, sun, air, grass, goosebumps and the sun. And all-all-all. Female energy flows horizontally, it is like the Earth. And male energy vertical, and a man feels great when, towering, like a strong tree, penetrates deeply into the ground. The man It feeds on female energy, just as a tree feeds on earth. IN relationship, if a woman rises above a man, she feels victory, but ultimately loses because the tree is underground means an earthquake. In these minutes a woman shakes like mountains in tremors and she feels deeply hidden anxiety. With every victory over tree men, anxiety grows and from this growing fatigue. Victories are no longer pleasing, because on this earth for a long time no one wants to settle. In the mountains there are always few inhabitants and they all ended up there for one reason: once their ancestors fled from mortal danger to these mountain gorges so that no one there found. So their descendants became highlanders. I’m a highlander myself, so I can do this speak. A woman who loses to a man is always the winner. Her energy is calm and flat. To its territory many join and life becomes more and more diverse. Such a woman has many friends and helpers, because that she does not shake with her energy those who decided to approach her open spaces. Now she is ready for a new growth, which is revealed in Ninth Secret: Ninth Secret: A man dreams of turning his woman to the Queen, and the woman dreams of a finished King. A woman is always looking for a Teacher Man who can help her to know oneself. Her vast universe needs a man, which will not pass by its most diverse phenomena and will be able to turn on all her female states: Girl, Mistress, Mistress and Queen. Only the King is capable of this, and therefore she needs a strong man, growing over his childhood fears and calming the spirits of his ancestors. A man wants to be a woman’s creator, he’s ready to create from of his woman, the Queen, and so eagerly listens to her words that she would like to learn somewhere, but not from him. To turn a man into a King, a woman should give him a royal attention and respectfully acknowledge his merits to her. He is the King and a woman who creates in a man a state of the realized King, always happy and lives in harmony and abundance. Every man understands this and in order to feel like a King, he must know the Tenth Secret: The Tenth Secret:
A man must understand that his intonation affects the state women. After all, she loves with her ears. Therefore, a man must be able to love voice, taking care of their intonations. Strong Man, King – one who can understand the feelings of a woman. Feelings are not words. They like leaflets in the wind. From a strong wind tremble. Ordinary man even does not suggest that his words and intonations are the wind that can scare a woman. A woman can be so scared that hide and deny the man Attention. And without her attention, he stops growing in status. Therefore, the King knows that the softer it is the voice, the faster his success. The king gives warmth. The king is the man is the Sun, and the Queen is a flower enjoying the Sun and gentle breeze breaking from his lips! Flower petals exude fragrance and spread the song of love around the world: “The man of my dreams – a man like you! ” (from the Internet).
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