Gestures and facial expressions will show the true face

A photo from open sources “The brain is so busy inventing lies that the body loses synchronicity, “Dr. Lightman,” Theory of Lies “Fear spontaneous expression of emotions or fear of making oneself unsuccessful and an unintelligent person leads to the fact that some they feel very constrained and try to copy other people’s gestures, instead of openly showing yours. They use stereotyped behavior, trying to hide the true face. Similar subjects are crammed with regular, mediocre manners, which is why look unnatural and even funny. Often. being perceived as educated and cultured people, they risk involuntary by gesture and facial expressions or word to reveal your real essence, with all vices and virtues. Remember perhaps among your Do you know people with good manners and secular polish? What do you can you say about him? Thinking, you will understand that you do not know at all him, because he is all hidden behind a mask of politeness and courtesy, which has been polished for years. Yes. really in society there are stereotyped stereotypes of behavior that serve their kind of body language and give us the illusion that we can control your feelings and consciously provide good impression on others. But not always a real result coincides with the desired. No matter how carefully our role is rehearsed, one awkward gesture or word – and the body with using sign language and facial expressions will show what is hidden in him inside. Therefore, sometimes it’s better to let our unique and true nature to manifest its true “I”. Is anybody be sure to pay attention to it, love and make us happier. Sign language and facial expressions – protective signals Often to maintain the image of an impregnable person, others put on a blank look and a bored look, the so-called “stone face. “Straight shoulders are a sign that a person is trying control your feelings and behavior. Tightly compressed mouth indicates unwillingness to communicate. These are bright direct signals, which are clearly understood by others. But sometimes, to hide their emotions, insecurity and fear, people resort to veiled ways of protection. For example, when we place our arms across the body and we embrace it, or we hold hands ourselves. Most often similar gestures are used when speaking to a large audience. it helps restore emotional security and hide their insecurity from prying eyes. List of similar protective body reactions are very large, but they all indicate a huge desire for self-control and unwillingness to show that a person thinks or feels at the moment. Sign language and facial expressions – spontaneity of movements Sign language and facial expressions, psychology of gestures human – there are many ways that allow you to decrypt a language bodies and understand other people, especially when they behave obscure or silent. Usually when we want deeper understand a person, we focus primarily on non-verbal communication signs. For example, if a man says he would like get to know you better and at the same time keep his arms crossed for chest, it at least misleads you. Nonverbal the signals are more spontaneous, and, no matter how pathetic it sounds, more sincerely. They make it easier to see the picture of what is happening, thanks to which we understand that man is ambivalent in his intention be closer to you. On the one hand, he is as if interested in learning you’re better, but on the other – something pushes him and makes him reluctant to make contact. So look around: maybe you will notice more than one pair of eyes fixed on you that are sincerely would like to meet you. Watch more – and you will see how the whole world opens before your eyes. Finding himself in a new company, pay attention to how others behave in an unfamiliar setting. There are people who walk energetically and actively around room, wanting everyone to know about their presence: people like them, They strive to fill the whole space with themselves, they want to be important and respected. Others, on the contrary, quickly find shelter in a quiet corner, to watch rather than participate. Im not very comfortable in any society, but when you meet them, you will see that these Strangers can be a pretty nice company. On the stages of rapprochement, we form the impression of a person, and do this is in the first few seconds. Polite socialite smile designed for people we don’t know but would like to get acquainted, and shaking hands – for those with whom we are friends or even we are in some proximity. Man’s openness is best manifests itself in a smile: if it is insincere, the lips only stretch out in a straight line, teeth are not completely exposed, and facial wrinkles around the eyes remain invisible. You may have noted that in people after plastic surgery, the eyes seem a little unnatural, and all because a smile without these natural folds around the eyes looks fake. But … even tense, it causes positive feedback and emotions. Therefore, adopt such advice: start the day with a joyful expression on your face. Practice him, even when you are not at all inclined to this – and you will be rewarded a hundredfold. Sign Language and Facial Expressions – Personal Space Exchange shaking hands, a friendly kiss on the cheek. All these language attributes gestures and facial expressions, psychology of human gestures, on the one hand, they have an interlocutor for you, on the other – they make them more vulnerable, as this person invades your personal area (standard distance – 70 cm). Each of us has a vital need protect your territory – as a guarantee of security. Readiness letting someone enter this zone depends on how much we don’t we only trust the person, but are also well disposed towards him. However, there are always those. who does not respect personal space and constantly trying to get into it. They are rude, even aggressively. Therefore, it’s quite natural that we protect ourselves, removing a person and creating their own untouchable zone. The direct, boring and long look that you send to your taking a step back to the opponent is a very bright non-verbal signal: “stay away from me!” So that the interlocutor changes the attitude TO YOU ON MORE FRIENDLY. If during the conversation your interlocutor easily touches your shoulder or elbow, then he gives you get a signal that he is looking for your location. It is estimated that due to one light touch on the elbow or shoulder, level friendliness can increase as much as 3 times. So that the interlocutor SPEAKED OR SPEAKED. During his story it is necessary nod slowly to the beat of his words. This is an active listening method, which signals to the interlocutor that you are simply delighted with his the story. So that the interlocutor as soon as possible finishes the conversation in this In case of nodding it is necessary to accelerate somewhat. On a subconscious level such a gesture can be perceived as “Yes, yes, I understand everything, while “TO UNDERSTAND YOU AND RELEVANT AS POSSIBLE CONDITION Bend your head to the side, open your palms, spreading your arms slightly apart, it will be perceived by others as demonstration of humility. “Torment” immediately must stop even the most harmful traffic cop. QUICKLY AND EFFECTIVELY SOLVE SHORT, BUT IMPORTANT FOR YOU QUESTION. This is done not sitting at the table, but standing (but not opposite the interlocutor). The person who is standing nearby turning to him a little, the interlocutor perceives as a friend, thereby trying to help him.