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I realized that most people just don’t want to listen to good ones. news. They like the bad ones, as they give them a reason to complain for life. Many armed with a whole arsenal of stories with bad end that make us believe that the world is triumphant evil. Once I decided to stop gossiping. To my surprise, I I suddenly realized that I have nothing to say. I should have met before friend, as we immediately began to wash the bones with friends. Over time, I made the discovery that there is another form of conversation, although it was not easy for me to break the bad habit. By the way I note: if I pass gossip about other people, then they probably do the same. What goes around comes around. Working with people is everything bigger and bigger, I really started to listen to what they speak. I began to distinguish individual words, not just general outline of the conversation. Usually after ten minutes of communication with a new I can already tell the client exactly what is the reason for his failures. And all because I listened to what words he uses. I knew which they contribute to the birth of new problems and the complication of old ones. If only these were mostly negative words, then you can imagine present an internal dialogue. It must be a manifestation negative programming, or, using my term, “thinking of poverty.” I want to offer you a little exercise. Record your telephone conversations or conversations with friends, family! And then listen to what you are talking about. Most likely, you will be amazed. After that you will begin to listen your voice, follow his intonations. And of course, keep track of the words you use. You will start to relate to this consciously. Upon discovering that they have repeated something three or more times, write down. This is a reflection of some kind of your setup. Some attitudes can be positive and work for you. But, perhaps there are a couple of negative attitudes to which you come back again and again. In connection with what I have already said, to me I would like to discuss the power that our subconscious possesses. The subconscious mind does not have its own opinion. It accepts everything we We speak, and creates our destiny in accordance with our beliefs. It always says yes. Our subconscious mind loves us so much that gives us everything we just ask with the help of our utterances. However, the choice is ours. If we choose “poor”, “miserable” thoughts and ideas, the subconscious mind decides that this is exactly what we want. And until we change our words, thoughts and beliefs for the better, everything will remain the same. The subconscious mind will offer us appropriate situations. we we’ll always make this choice, because there are billions of thoughts, and they are in motion all the time. Our subconscious mind cannot to distinguish truth from lies. We don’t want to humiliate ourselves. We do not wish say something like “oh, how old and stupid I am.” We know that subconscious takes everything on the fly. After a while we will feel exactly old and stupid. Say something several times – and a new one will take root in your subconscious representation. The subconscious has no sense of humor. Very important to end to understand this thought. Do not mock yourself and think that it will get away with it. If a joke humiliates you even a little – let you tried to seem courageous and cheerful, – the subconscious take this humiliation seriously. I do not let people on my trainings to joke in a similar way, humiliating yourself or each other. Human dignity should never be offended, no matter what it was a question of nationality, sex, etc. Do not make fun of yourself and do not make derogatory remarks. It will not bring anything good. Not humiliate others. The subconscious mind does not draw a line between you and by other people. It believes in what you say about yourself. IN the next time you want to criticize someone, ask what caused this feeling in you. You see in others only what you see in yourself. Instead of criticizing people praise them, and in a month enormous changes will occur in you. Our words are an expression of attitude to something. Notice how they say lonely, miserable, poor and sick people. What words do they consume? What is true for them? In what terms do they describe themselves? What do they say about their work, about their life, about your relationship with other people? What do they expect from life? Consider their manner of expression, but please do not say that their life flows according to how they speak. Do not say this even to your friends and family – information is not will be taken into account. Use it in order to proceed to establishing a connection with oneself. Exercise constantly if want to improve your life. Changing at least a little manner to talk, you will attract other life situations. Suppose you are a sick person. Do you believe that the disease is incurable and get ready for death. It seems to you that life is a cruel thing, because that everything works against you in it. What are you doing then guess? You choose freedom. Freedom from your negative ideas about life. Start with affirmations, tell yourself that loved, worthy of healing, that attract everything you need for healing on a physical level. Believe that desire to recover and be healthy is completely safe. Many people they feel completely safe only when they are sick. They like usually fall into the category of people who can’t say no. ” The only possibility of refusal comes down to the following phrase for them: “I’m too sick to do this.” When i gave private consultations, then my clients often argued with me over about their capabilities. They kept trying to justify their inability to cope with accumulated problems. If we believe that bogged down and accept it as a fact, then it happens. We are stymied by the fact that our negative attitudes become a reality. So let’s get started instead focus on your inner strength. Love yourself – the most important thing you can do. Because loving yourself you cannot offend anyone — neither yourself, nor anyone else. let’s let us begin our journey to awareness, listening to the fact that we We tell ourselves and others. Louise Hay
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