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There are mistakes that cannot be made in any way and which a person, strange as it may seem, commits again and again, thereby poisoning and even destroying your life.
So, what cannot be done in life in any case.
Live in the past
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Even if you have experienced the greatest happiness in the past, it is worth it. to leave. Living in the past means cutting off your path to the future, stop development and practically die. pay attention to old people who live in the past are just walking corpses. But here nothing can be fixed. So, learn to leave the past, easy and joyfully while you are young …
Afraid to take risks
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Who does not risk, then not only does not drink champagne, but in general dooms itself to stagnation and stagnation. To be afraid of risk means afraid of change. Are you afraid to make a mistake? But progress is brilliant a necklace of mistakes and delight overcoming them where the most precious stones are just mistakes.
Wait for happiness
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Man is happy from the beginning. Pay attention to children and learn from them to be happy. After all, they are even in the most difficult periods (say, children of war) remain happy within themselves. Open your eyes wider, let in the beauty of the world and … be happy! Not ever, but certainly now. The one who sets aside his happiness for the future – he will never know what it is such is happiness!
Do not value what you have
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An amazing property of a person: to appreciate only what he has not. This often leads to such a destructive feeling as envy. Learn to value and enjoy what you have. Only and only then will you achieve everything that you want and ultimately account, you know real happiness and love.
To think that happiness can be bought
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The beauty of happiness lies in its accessibility. For this, no money. Moreover, often it is money that gets in the way of the true happiness. Or rather, not money itself, but a wrong attitude person to them, who for some reason is sure that for money you can buy happiness, love, friendship, devotion, health … This the greatest misconception you need to get out of your head as much as possible faster.
Trying to change others
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We always think that happiness can be achieved by changing for the better side of the people around us – husband, wife, children, friends and others beloved and not even very beloved. Let people be what they are they are – and you will suddenly see, to your surprise, how they themselves change for the better.
To be afraid
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All demons are sitting inside us, outside only those whom we already gave rise to their fears. No wonder the ancient wisdom says: why we are afraid – we are attracted to our life. Be honest with yourself and do not drive fears into the subconscious with false bravado and even more false excuses. Let go of your fears …
Control
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A person is not able to control in this life even the most a little bit. It’s a lot wiser to live by the principle “for all the will of God”, Rejoice at each of its manifestations, surrendering to love and happiness. Where total control begins – energy overlaps there creativity and creation. So, what is next?
To think that you owe something to someone
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Understand once and for all: you do not owe anything to anyone – nor the parents who raised you, nor the children themselves educate, not so much any party, government, mythical homeland, numerous relatives and so on. Let God take care of all this, don’t try to substitute his – besides embarrassment and vain misery, you have nothing will work out.
To regret the deed
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You should not execute yourself even for the most sinful acts, especially regret what they did not have time to do or what was wrong. There are no perfect people in the world. Climbing the path of life uphill, not drag this useless load.
In conclusion – a parable, the meaning of which try to understand for yourself. Once a Buddhist monk from an ashram was walking with a disciple. Going up to by the river, they saw a girl who did not dare to step into the water. The monk silently took her in his arms, carried her to the other side and went further. The student was so surprised by this teacher’s act that walked staring for a long time, but then still could not stand it and condemning asked how so, because according to the charter of the ashram they are forbidden even look towards women, and here it is? To which the teacher replied: I I left that girl on the shore long ago, and you still carry her …
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