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Useful skills to help grow a full-fledged and self-sufficient person respecting his parents. We have something learn from this wise people. The basic rules of Tibetan education: – The most important thing – no humiliation and bodily punishments. The only reason children are hit is because they don’t can give change. – The first period: up to 5 years. With a child need treat “like a king.” You can’t forbid anything, only Divert. If he does something dangerous, then do the scared face and utter a startled exclamation. The child understands such a language perfectly. At this time, activity, curiosity, interest in life. The child is not yet able to build long logical chains. For example, he broke an expensive vase. He is not understands that to buy such a vase you need to work hard, earn money. He will perceive punishment as suppression from a position strength. You teach him not to beat the vases, but to obey the one who is stronger. Do you need it? – The second period: from 5 to 10. At this time with the child need to be treated “like a slave.” Set tasks for him and demand their implementation. You can be punished for non-compliance (but not physically). At this time, intelligence is actively developing. Child must learn to predict people’s reactions to his actions, evoke a positive attitude towards yourself and avoid manifestation negative. At this time, do not be afraid to load the child with knowledge. – The third period: from 10 to 15. How to handle it? As with an equal. Not on equal terms, namely “as with equal”, since you still have more experience and knowledge. Consult with him on all important issues, provide and promote autonomy. Impose your will in “velvet gloves” in the discussion process, tips, advice. If you do not like something, then focus his attention on negative consequences, avoiding direct prohibitions. At that time formed by the independence and independence of thinking. – Last period: from 15 years. Treat him with respect. To educate it’s too late for the child, and you can only reap the fruits of your labor. What are the consequences of non-compliance with these rules? – If you suppress a child under 5 years old, then you suppress it vital activity, interest in life, intelligence. Teach him thoughtlessly and habitually submit to brute force. Make of it an easy sacrifice for all kinds of villains. – If you will be continue to lisp after 5, then the child will grow up infantile, incapable of work and in general spiritual efforts. – If you will be to patronize the child as a small one after 10, then he will grow up unsure, will be dependent on more independent friends, which may not always have the desired effect. – If you not If you respect the child after 15, he will not forgive you for this and will leave forever at your earliest convenience.
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