Photos from open sources of
Have you ever been in a stressful situation? And they noticed how do men and women behave in this? Right, absolutely differently. A woman usually starts without stopping chattering, the man is plunged into thought, although in principle he should reassure the woman. “Don’t worry, we will certainly find way out, everything will be fine “- such words will help a woman calm down and not react too sharply to the situation. She will feel that the man is able to protect her and help her.
If a woman is preoccupied with a problem, she should be sure to listen without interrupting. Do not tell her the situation trifling. It is very important for a woman to share experiences with a loved one. When she speaks out and calms down, you can ask questions and suggest ways to solve the problem. If the man closes, the woman begins to experience even more and literally “winds” itself.
A stressed man should not try to talk. Not you must convince him to also seek help from a specialist. Men do not like to talk about their own problems, especially with a stranger. When they “think over” the situation, they will speak yourself.
Men cannot think and speak at the same time, but women when talking, they can come up with many ways out of the situation. Them the brain and all brain activity are structured differently. Under stress a woman’s speech function is activated, and a man’s logic, and spatial thinking.
Therefore, if you are in a difficult situation, try not to aggravate her. A woman is better to talk to her friend or friend (in ideally, to the husband), and the man to talk to himself. And then exit certainly found.
